Node equivalence is common in graphs, such as computing networks, encompassing automorphic equivalence (preserving adjacency under node permutations) and attribute equivalence (nodes with identical attributes). Despite their importance for learning node representations, these equivalences are largely ignored by existing graph models. To bridge this gap, we propose a GrAph self-supervised Learning framework with Equivalence (GALE) and analyze its connections to existing techniques. Specifically, we: 1) unify automorphic and attribute equivalence into a single equivalence class; 2) enforce the equivalence principle to make representations within the same class more similar while separating those across classes; 3) introduce approximate equivalence classes with linear time complexity to address the NP-hardness of exact automorphism detection and handle node-feature variation; 4) analyze existing graph encoders, noting limitations in message passing neural networks and graph transformers regarding equivalence constraints; 5) show that graph contrastive learning are a degenerate form of equivalence constraint; and 6) demonstrate that GALE achieves superior performance over baselines.